Saturday, March 17, 2012

The Truth About Plumeria


For those desiring an island-inspired wedding, the beautiful and fragrant plumeria blossoms often come to mind as a natural addition to the floral decor. The simple, clean lines of this five-petaled bloom conjure images of sandy beaches and tropical weather, perfect for a wedding in Hawaii, right?


The truth about plumeria (introduced to Hawaii in 1860 and also referred to as "frangipani") is that it is an extremely delicate flower, is seasonal, and its sap is poisonous if consumed. The fact that it wilts, bruises, and browns quickly once picked from the tree makes it less desirable as a wedding flower, particularly for bouquets if the wedding is an all-day affair. As for its seasonality, some varieties of plumeria only bloom during the summer in Hawaii, while evergreen varieties bloom less in the winter, making it more difficult to source in the non-summer months. Due to its toxic sap, floral designers advise against using fresh plumeria on cakes and cupcakes, and it would probably be wise to avoid using them on napkins as accent flowers.

So does this mean that you should not have plumeria present at your wedding at all? No, if your heart is set on incorporating this flower into your wedding, consult your floral designer and wedding planner for creative ways to "have your plumeria, and (not) eat it, too!" Some suggestions would be to use the plumeria as one of the flowers in arrangements, not making it the primary flower; to have your pastry chef create hand-crafted, edible plumeria for cakes or cupcakes; or to use it ways where less of it is needed, particularly since obtaining large quantities, especially in off-months, may be tricky.

Happy Planning!

Saturday, March 10, 2012

Wedding Planning Withdrawals?

Many brides and even grooms after their wedding have told me about "wedding withdrawals," that feeling of not knowing what to do with the sudden increase of free time; of missing their wedding planning; of not having their wedding to look forward to anymore...but wait! Just because your wedding may have come and gone, there remain a few tasks to keep track of after the wedding has taken place. Be sure to keep these items on your radar:
  • head to the bank - immediately after your wedding, deposit any monetary gifts

Photo by Kai Photo

  • gown preservation - if keeping your gown, have your gown cleaned and preserved, and particularly if your gown is soiled or stained, do this as soon as possible

Photo by Kai Photo

  • thank yous - remember to send out thank you notes to all those who contributed to your wedding with a gift or by lending their help and support
  • name change - if taking on a different name in marriage, have all official records, accounts, licenses, etc. updated with your new name
  • select photos for album - if ordering an album, choose photos and get the album design process underway quickly, as this may easily be one of those items that get placed on the back burner and forgotten
  • relive the memories - enjoy reminiscing about your wedding by viewing your wedding photos and video

Photo by Kris Labang Photography

Happy post-planning!

Mona