Boutonniere or lei?

Photo by L'amour Photography

I frequently get asked whether it would make sense to wear a boutonniere or a lei. Remember that a boutonniere requires a lapel, so if going for a more casual affair with perhaps an aloha shirt or sans jacket, a lei would be appropriate. Assuming a suit or tuxedo, then either would work well for a formal event in Hawaii.

Photo by Visionari

Photo by Visionari

I like to suggest a boutonniere for the ceremony and formal picture taking. Because videographers typically pin a lavaliere (pin-on) microphone, a lei could potentially pick up any rustling noise from the lei, so a boutonniere presents an easy solution there. Following the ceremony, and for a subtle change of look, a lei could then be worn for the reception.

Photo by Eugene Kam Photography

A bit of advice: with all the hugging that takes place, a poor boutonniere could take a beating. Consider ordering a second boutonniere to switch to should the first one start looking a little shabby.